There is unexpected and then there is UNEXPECTED. Strangely enough the lesser of the two is the one that gets to me more. Huge unexpected things - like getting caught in an epic thunderstorm with a tornado in it somewhere and 6 inches of rain in 20 minutes while driving with the kids in the car - seem to flip a switch inside and the Survivor thing happens. But little disasters just throw my whole day into the crapbag and I fall apart. o0